Summary: We saved one of our kid goats from certain death. Body: In February of this year (2021 for those reading in other years), we had a very bad freeze that lasted for about a week. Arctic air made its way all the down here to Texas. I mean, bad bad. On February 16 the … Continue reading Popsicle →

Summary: Healthy relationships are so important and go a long way in healing. Body: Taken from:  The Underrated Healing Power of a Healthy Relationship “Of course, relationships—unhealthy relationships—are also a major source of the problem. In one of the most memorable passages of The Deepest Well, Burke Harris recounts sitting down with 10-year-old Kayla and … Continue reading Importance of Relationships →

I've never had a problem understanding what a victim is. But when I recently heard the word 'victimhood' I was intrigued. What is 'victimhood'? I wanted to know more so I asked a friend to see what it meant to them. Their answers, though insightful, left me feeling like there has to be more to … Continue reading Victimhood →

Hello Blog Readers, I've added a new Menu, 'Gallery' that is available from the Home Page. Not only does it have incidental pictures of my, family, and some friends, but I'm a serious amateur photographer and am just sharing some of my work with you for your enjoyment. It's nothing more than a bunch of … Continue reading Gallery →

Though some may find this song a sad song, I strongly disagree. It's a song of hope. It makes a point, that may otherwise may go unnoticed, about thoughts we may have during times of doubt. You'll have to listen to it to understand. It even provides some sound, though simple, advice on how to … Continue reading Inspirational →

Summary: Great story from Linda Lee/Lady Quixote. Many good, recommended by her, references of how she pulled herself out of the mud she encountered along her healing journey. Body: Linda Lee/Lady Quixote, thanks for sharing your story. It's very brave of you to share such intimate details, and awesome that you recommend resources that've helped … Continue reading Healing Story by Linda Lee →

As many couples do before going to sleep, my partner and I enjoy pillow talk. I reckon one of the benefits, if I dare call it that, of the abuse that I endured, is that I try to be exceptionally gentle with my partner. She makes it easy as she's gentle with me, too. Sometimes … Continue reading Sunshine →

We have little control over the thoughts/emotions that pop into our heads. We do have control over what we do with those. That’s true for all of us. We never know what or when something that we perceive is going to trigger a thought, emotion, or a memory. It could be something we see, hear, … Continue reading Triggered →

Why you should always carry some ductwork with you at all times: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ayT6tHJ7sn4

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Summary: I invite you to take at least a quick look at my updated website that includes notable changes, and thus a bit of a new look. Plus, below, is a very brief look back of my blog posts. Body: Y'all may have noticed that I sent out some accidental posts/reposts. I apologize for those, … Continue reading A Look Back →

I have a favor to ask of you, because perhaps you can help me out. For all my adult life, I've been trying to overcome the negative effects of severe childhood abuses that includes, as a kid, being repetitively sexually molested by a, previously known by the Church, child molesting priest. The well documented long-term … Continue reading Question for You →

This may be a repost. If it is it’s because I don’t know how to use the Blog system. My apologies. Summary: "And I have confidence that this true, genuine contrition will happen. ‘But, Matt, silly Matt, how can you have confidence in such a seemingly unattainable goal? Your life is a classic demonstration that … Continue reading The Unknown →

I’m grateful for those that read my blog. Summary: I don’t harbor ill will towards anyone. I believe everyone is doing the best they can in their life; whatever that may be. I’m just saying that more needs to be done by the Church, sooner than later to meet the on-going needs of survivors. Change … Continue reading Making Positive out of Trauma →

When a post is long, I like to put a summary upfront to show respect for those who are especially time challenged. In this post it might be unreasonable to expect me to share an amazing breakthrough briefly. Summary: I've had what feels like a breakthough and have written about it in some depth. I … Continue reading An Amazing Breakthrough →

I have some exciting news. Recently I had an amazing breakthrough and I want to share it with you in an upcoming post. I just know you're going to want to read it. LOL? It's titled "An Amazing Breakthrough". Keep your eyes peeled. But, I've got to warn you in advance that it is long. … Continue reading Exciting News →

Most times our communication is good enough to convey the message of what we are trying to say. For various reasons there are other times it can be difficult. As communication breaks down it may be necessary to use more words to get our message across. Then comes along the invention of t-shirts that fortunately … Continue reading Communication Barriers →